Remember school? I do, most of it anyway. Do you remember being bullied in kindergarten? I don’t, bullying for me didn’t start until hmmmmmmmmm 4th grade. Well sometimes in kindergarten, there’s this one kid….
My daughter was bullied in kindergarten, that one kid would steal her lunch money and let me tell you girls are even worst than that, their words can sting you like a wasp. My daughter has dealt with words like that since kindergarten and as a matter of fact she has dealt with it until we moved down here and she started in this school, this year has been great with her and she hasn’t had to deal with any type of bullying at all. Before I go any further in this post I want to say sometimes words can hurt just as much as being pushed, slapped, and punched. I found this video on You Tube, a girl named Alye Pollack made this video with the help of her parents. I want to share this because when I watched it, it caught my breath. It’s incredibly powerful, unique, sad, heart breaking and this girl deserves all of our attention when we watch it. I introduce to you Alye Pollack, a beautiful girl who has to deal with pain and heart-break everyday of her life…
I got a call from the school last week, I go to answer thinking “oh shit, what happen?” Never thought it would be the school calling to inform me that my son had been in an incident with one of his classmates.
“Mrs. Bats, I’m calling to inform you of a situation we are handling right now. Your son has been assaulted by one of his classmates. Currently we don’t think he needs to go to the hospital or doctors but I want to warn you that it is something that we may need to do.” Uhhhhh what the hell?!? I didn’t end up having to take him anywhere but when he got home and I found out it was the same kid that’s been pushing him down in the sandbox and throwing sand in his hair and face, smoke came out of my ears, nose, mouth; okay pretty much every orifice I have on my body. I immediately set up a meeting with the school principal and teacher. Come to find out this kid is not only bullying my son but pretty much every kid, just depends on how bad his day is going. I don’t give a crud how bad his day is. If he lays another hand on my son, I will press charges on him for assault. The school is kindly sending my message along to him and his parents. I don’t care if he is 5 or 50 years old, don’t touch my son at all.
I have zero solutions to bullying, I have zero solutions to how many bad days kids are allowed before it escalates into major violence. I wish I did but I don’t.